Thinking in spectrums

Also in systems, streams, vectors, dimensions, degrees, levels

Getting things done rubric

It's not good or bad.
It's not right or wrong.
It's not yes or no.
It's not agree or disagree.
It's not religious or atheist.
It's not happy or sad.
It's not this or that.
...
Things in life are never binary, it's usually both, to different degrees and it varies depending on the context
And it's not permanent, it's ever changing.
So, stop trying to put things in buckets.
Accept that there is some context behind everything, some nuance to things and if you are curious, there is always something you can learn that will help you understand yourself, others and the universe better everyday.

A simple example is if you have to agree or disagree with something. You might agree for 80% of it, disagree for 20%. You might agree more or less depending on certain conditions which can change immediately or over time.
Realize this and you will experience reality differently